
Knitting is in my blood. My great-great-grandmother knitted socks, my great-grandmother taught me to knit, my grandmother has never been without a project in her knitting basket and my mother loves knitting socks although she prefers to crochet.
According to my grandmother, my great-great-grandmother, Ingeborg, “threw” her knitting and it was not until I moved to the UK I understood what she meant. Ingeborg knitted in the English manner. I continue to wonder about Ingeborg throwing rather than picking (i.e. the Continental way). Where did she learn a style which is not used in Denmark? Who taught her? I wish I knew more about her.
Now my grandmother has expressed a desire to get “something knitted” from me for Christmas. Gran used to knit sample sweaters for a local yarn shop and you should see the fair isle sweaters she used to knit for me. Of course I cannot find any photos of them (and she gave them all to charity at one point, annoyingly), but I remember them as being stunning. My particular favourite was one knitted in Faroese colourwork (two colours, geometric patterns) in bright red and dark green. I know she still has the pattern and I harbour dreams of recreating it.
On the photo above you can see me aged five or thereabouts. I’m wearing one of Gran’s creations: it looks like brioche stitch to me with set-in sleeves. I’ll spare you the other photo I found. It was a zipped cardigan with a hood done in lilac. I’ve always hated zips in knitwear, wearing a hood and the colour lilac. Now I know why. A childhood trauma, clearly.
But what do you knit for a woman whose knitting I have worn since I was a baby?
The obvious answer is lace.
Gran has never knitted much lace, much preferring cables, brioche stitch and colourwork. When I knitted a scarf for my mother last year, Gran kept talking about the fine detailing and the delicate stitches. My family does not do “subtle” very well.
I looked in my stash and uncovered a beautiful hank of Old Maiden Aunt merino/silk in “Gothic”. Then I looked at a gazillion lace shawls on Ravelry before deciding to go with a pattern I have used before: the good, old Swallowtail shawl by Evelyn A. Clark. It is one of the prettiest shawl patterns available, I’ve knit it twice before and know its pitfalls, and I know I can get it done in plenty of time for the holidays even if I’m going to enlargen it slightly (it is a bit dainty).
Think my Gran will like it? I think so.






Excellent choice – I’m sure she’ll love it. Such a good idea to pick lace if she doesn’t knit it herself. And familiar lace too so you can be confident of the result.
Lovely idea, and I’m sure she’ll agree. Love the colours.
of course she will love it! the same way we treasure things that our grandmothers give us.